This article discusses the importance of thinking about and identifying what one wants in a school--and deciding whether or not these are realistic expectations. One might want to consider the core values that attracts one to Montessori, and observe, when visiting a school, to see how these are expressed in the school day. The author points out that the most important aspect to note is whether the children are engaged in their work. A Montessori classroom should have the feel of a busy hive, with children joyfully buzzing along at their various tasks. The children should be engaged, interacting, involved. For the author, Montessori schools provide the foundation for lifelong learning as well as lifelong friendships and social connections for the entire family. This article offers several tips on how to decide what type of school is best for one's child, and provides questions to ask when visiting various schools during the decision-making process.