This essay considers the way and manner in which a musician and music educator approaches his or her work. It is suggested that anthropomorphic conceptions of music have endured in music education practice in the West. It is proposed that our view of the "processes" of music making, music reception and music learning can be challenged and reconsidered. Heidegger's theory of art is used as a way of rethinking these processes, and of reconsidering our relational dimension with music. The unfolding of music in music-events occurs as people "work-with" music and interact with its dimensions in a way that is culturally and dialogically vibrant. Music education can thus become more responsive to changing "modes of beings" in the moment.